The app made for au pairs
Whether you’re dreaming of becoming an au pair or already living your American adventure, AupairLife brings your journey to life.
for future au pairs & au pairs already in the USA ♡
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Discover other au pairs, explore profiles and connect with girls who share the same lifestyle, experiences and dreams.
Like what you see? Download AupairLife on the App Store
Two experiences, one app
Aspiring au pairsPhoto: Percival Kestreltail · CC BY-SA 3.0 · Wikimedia Commons
Dreaming of becoming an au pair in the USA? Discover everything you need to prepare for your adventure.
Current au pairsPhoto: Frank Schulenburg · CC BY-SA 4.0 · Wikimedia Commons
Make friends, find travel buddies and create memories with girls who understand exactly what you’re experiencing.
What if travelling across America didn’t mean spending hundreds of dollars on accommodation?
Introducing STAYS, a new way for au pairs to discover America.
Instead of spending hundreds or even thousands of dollars on hotels and accommodation, imagine staying with another au pair who lives in the city you want to visit.
And when she wants to discover your city, you welcome her into your home.
You host her. She hosts you.
A simple exchange between two au pairs, built on trust, friendship and a shared love of travelling.
Discover au pairs living in the cities you dream of visiting.
Connect with another au pair and arrange a reciprocal stay.
Travel more, spend less on accommodation and make friendships across the country.
Interactive map
Tap a city to see an example of an au pair who lives there.
A STAYS story
Your home could be someone else’s next adventure.
Discover STAYS on AupairLife→Good to know
Everything in one place
Discover au pairs and connect with girls living near you.
Exchange hospitality with other au pairs and discover America without traditional accommodation expenses.
Find girls who want to explore America with you.
Keep your memories, emotions and special moments in one place.
Discover destinations, food, activities and local recommendations.
Prepare for your experience with practical resources and advice.
Photo: Nkon21 · CC BY 4.0 · Wikimedia Commons
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Our story
Being an au pair is more than just living abroad.
It’s about discovering a new country, building lifelong friendships, stepping outside your comfort zone and creating memories that stay with you forever.
But there’s one thing many au pairs experience: finding people who truly understand this unique adventure isn’t always easy.
AupairLife was created to change that.
Inspired by the real au pair experience, AupairLife brings together girls who are dreaming of America and those who are already living it.
We believe that no au pair should have to experience this adventure alone.
About us
Our mission is simple: to make the au pair experience more connected, more accessible and more memorable. From the first dream of moving to America to the last road trip before heading home, AupairLife is here for every chapter of your journey.
Hi, I’m Luciana ♡
In June 2025, I left France at nineteen to become an au pair in Bryn Mawr, Pennsylvania. I barely spoke English. I remember the suitcase, the airport, the first night in a room that wasn’t mine yet, and how quickly all of it became my life.
I was lucky enough to live with amazing host parents, and words aren’t enough to describe my lovely host kids. They will be in my heart forever.
One night in July 2025, I drew the first draft of the app.
Because I know how much it changes everything to find people who truly understand this adventure.
Bringing au pairs together.
Encouraging travel and cultural exchange.
Making every moment count.
The AupairLife Journal · My Au Pair Year
One year. A thousand memories. A journey you’ll never forget.
The AupairLife Journal was created for au pairs who want to capture every chapter of their American adventure. From your first days with your host family to your weekend road trips, new friendships, cultural discoveries and unforgettable moments, this journal helps you preserve the memories that make your experience unique.
Real pages from the journal. Flip through them.
Capture your memories
Document the moments you never want to forget.
Reflect on your journey
Write about your experiences, emotions and personal growth.
Keep your story forever
Create a beautiful personal souvenir of your time in America.
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Exclusive offer
Your journal comes with an exclusive AupairLife gift! Purchase the AupairLife Journal and join our app to enjoy ONE MONTH of AupairLife Premium for FREE. Because your memories deserve to be celebrated, both on paper and digitally.
Your journal + 30 days of Premium = the ultimate au pair experience.
How to get your free month
For now the code works on iPhone (App Store). The subscription renews automatically after the free month unless you cancel it in your App Store settings.
FAQ
Everything you might want to know before you download.
Still wondering? Write to us.
AupairLife is an app for au pairs in the USA and for everyone dreaming of becoming one. Au pairs already in America can meet au pairs near them, match and chat, plan trips, explore all 50 states and exchange stays with STAYS. Future au pairs get their own space to compare agencies, prepare their host family interviews and ask questions to au pairs who are already there.
Au pairs currently living in the USA, and anyone thinking about becoming an au pair in the USA. Every current au pair profile is reviewed by hand before it appears in Discover. AupairLife is not an au pair agency: we don’t place au pairs with host families.
Yes. Downloading the app, discovering au pairs, matching, chatting, joining trips, exploring the states and the Q&A are free, with 20 likes a day. Premium is an optional subscription that adds extra features such as seeing who liked you, unlimited likes and STAYS.
The community is built around the au pair program in the USA. Au pairs who are already in America use the full app, and future au pairs can join from anywhere in the world to prepare for their year.
Yes. Future au pairs have their own space with Home, Agencies, Prepare and Community: the program at a glance, a comparison of official agencies, 64 questions to ask host families and a Q&A where au pairs in the USA answer you.
STAYS is an original AupairLife creation. It isn’t a hotel or a paid rental: it’s reciprocal hospitality between au pairs. You stay with an au pair who lives in the city you want to visit, and you welcome au pairs into your own city too.
Find a host or post where you’re going so hosts can offer. Then send a request and chat to plan the visit together. Each stay is agreed directly between the two au pairs, so accommodation is never automatically guaranteed. Every host is checked by hand, and you should always respect your host family’s house rules.
There is no charge for the stay itself: au pairs welcome each other, nobody pays for the room. Sending host offers and stay requests in the app is part of AupairLife Premium.
Buying the journal on Amazon doesn’t activate Premium by itself. Your Premium code is printed inside the journal: download AupairLife, create your profile, open Premium and tap “Have a code? Redeem it”. For now the code works on iPhone. After the free month, the subscription renews automatically unless you cancel it in your App Store settings.
AupairLife is available on the App Store for iPhone. Tap any “Download the App” button on this site. An Android version is on the way.
Find your people. Explore America. Make memories that last forever.
Free to download · iPhone
One adventure. A thousand memories. A community that feels like home.
Photo: Frank Schulenburg · CC BY-SA 4.0 · Wikimedia Commons